About Us
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Who are the Panda Whores?
We are a (mostly) PA area based group of Lifestylers who are fun-loving, attention-seeking, group play masters!
If you go to any PA area events, you want to meet us!
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What is a Panda Whore?
Basically, we're the swingers who prefer group play over a 3-some or 4-some, prefer a party or club to a quiet dinner, prefer playing in the open play area rather than behind closed doors, love making people laugh as much as we love making them cum, usually at the same time.
Our motto is "Party like a rock star, Fuck like a porn star, Live like a Panda Whore!"
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What is the Panda Room?
Firstly, we take decorating & partying to another level. Our room has EDM festival lights and stereo sound & we decorate every square inch of the room and hallway around it! Secondly, you may find that some doors - even on the party floor - are closed, or only seem open to a clique - but that is not the Panda way. As long as you follow swinger etiquette & the rules of consent, our room is always open for play!
The name itself all started between a small group of intimate swingers and exhibitionists, just goofing off one night and enjoying some shenanigans. We started taking some dirty, yet funny, pictures while wearing a Panda head from a previous Halloween costume.
One of the members in the group called the rest of the “Embarrassment” a bunch of “Dirty Fucking Panda Whores” ….and that’s how we got our name.
It was just a bunch of friends having fun together, not taking ourselves seriously, and having a good time. The Pandas are an escape from our everyday lives & realities, even just for a minute, an hour, or a weekend.
We all like seeing or taking dirty pictures in some way, but we have real lives, family, and professional reasons for not actually doing it. However, you can be completely anonymous with a Panda head on. You can be anyone, and you can be no one. You can take those photos and enjoy it.
We both are Performers & Entertainers, it’s in our blood and bones.
Leila grew up wanting to be an Actress, and she even moved LA to pursue her dream when she was younger. She has lots of experience being on a stage. She also loves to sing, and you can see that first hand at our karaoke events. Mike grew up wanting to be a Musician and a Comedian. He toured with his band, and dabbled in stand up comedy when he was younger. We love making people laugh. We love to create, explore creativity, and self expressionism!!!
Our personal motto is “Work Hard, Play Harder!!”
We met in the Lifestyle on SLS. Mike was an experienced Swinger as both a Single Male and as a Couple several times, and he used to run a Sex Dungeon that he built and designed. Leila was adventurous and experienced as a Unicorn. She is EXTREMELY outgoing. She’s personally organized a lot of swinger events/parties, and she is the Creator of the Pandas, and the Panda Queen, also known as “Trash”.
Neither of us became a famous actress, singer, musician, or comedian. It wasn’t in our cards, but it doesn’t mean we still don’t have the passions for it. We love to entertain and have fun. We like to make people smile and have a good time. We can be grown-ups during the week, but we can compartmentalize a weekend for absolute silliness and ridiculousness for the sake of having fun, smiling, and laughing, with old friends, and with new friends.
We are also “Burners”. We love the Burning Man culture and vibes, and we love these types of festivals, but no, we have not actually been to the Main Burning Man event…YET!! We do more local and regional “Burns”.
A stranger is just a friend you haven’t met, or been introduced to yet. Maybe you are new, or shy, or introverted, so meeting people and putting yourselves out there may be outside of your comfort zone.
Well, the Pandas try to help bridge that gap, by bringing everyone together with face to face interactions, without all the internet pursuits, endless messaging, hopeful planning, and catfishing.
Basically we want to help get you from behind your phone or computer screen, and into the real world…old school style lol. We are an all-inviting, all-welcoming group. Our doors are open, and we except everyone who follows our basic primary rule: Positive Vibes Only!!!
We want you to be your True Self. We encourage creativity & self expression. We believe in proper 2-way communication with your partner. Communication is the key to everything in the lifestyle. Clear minded, open, civil communication so we can all grow and evolve together. Use your words to tell your partner, and others, how you feel, what you like, and want you want to try. Don’t judge other for what THEY desire, or allow yourself to be judged for what YOU desire when doing so.
The Lifestyle is all about being about to communicate to your partner what you like & don’t like, in a safe space, without judgement or resentment. You should be able to communicate to them about anything, and everything. If not with them, then who?
Positive situations create positive memories.
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